Example of a compatibility horoscope
The natal charts of Bill and Hilary are compared by putting them more or less on top of each other.
Between the planets of both charts the aspects and the house positions are calculated.
With this aspect Bill will know that he has to be flexible because he loves the fact that Hilary is unpredictable. He sees this potential for surprise as a way to renew his life even if it sometimes seems like he has completely lost control. If he wants to stay with her, he is going to have to learn to accept this. He may welcome the chance to find out how it is not to have everything under control. Hilary will be at his side offering advice and assistance and will enjoy the flood of surprises in your paths. Still you can't tell if a relationship is going to last a lifetime by looking at one harmonious aspect.
Bill's feelings will go in another direction than Hilary's thoughts. This will most likely result in misunderstandings; possibly he has the feeling that she isn't interested in what is going on inside him and isn't able to put herself in his place. She can't understand that he isn't open for her ideas, which may be just a demonstration of his defiance. He would like to give her warmth and comfort, while she misses stimulating discussions with him. It won't be easy for you to just relax together.
This relationship may contain some emotional conflicts. You have different ideas about harmony in a partnership. She may find him moody and suffer because he isn't able to satisfy her needs. Maybe he doesn't recognize her feminine qualities or is even afraid of her femininity. On the other hand he may accuse her of being able put herself in the position of everyone else and really understand them, therefore having no understanding for him. Even if she tries she may have trouble getting close to him. This is a challenging aspect maybe resulting in a disappointment. You should both approach your problems with a lot of sensitivity.
This is a challenging aspect which will make it difficult for both of you to express your feelings openly and honestly. Hilary will have little understanding for your inner world and will try to dominate you. You will suffer under her emotional frigidity, but won't be able to get away from her because she provides you with stability and security on a social level. Maybe she thinks that you are moody and too weak and has high expectations you can't fulfill. The external success is not as important to you as it is to her. Both of you may feel helpless because you want to clear things up in conversation, which is difficult in this relationship. Take a look at the other aspects of this horoscope.
Bill's logic will combine harmoniously with Hilary's imagination. Probably she will lead him to come up with a lot of new ideas because he will finally risk leaving convention behind and trust his intuition. He will bring her to confront the trials and troubles of her daily life. She has a lot to learn and may come to see the world a little more realistically. This aspect will be advantageous for both: she will train her intellectual abilities and logical thinking while he will become intellectually more open and judge situations by more than just facts and figures.
You can make good use of Hilary's energy and have no problems with her taking the lead. She is probably more active and more courageous than you are. In spite of that, your relationship will be fine, because she will respond to your needs and likes to cuddle in front of the fireplace. Maybe she will encourage you to explore your artistic talents, while you can bring her to relax and to take things as they come.
Both of you are honest about your feelings and will become deeply involved with each other. Bill is very receptive to her dreams and visions and sees them as an enrichment of his life. Maybe he will inspire her artistically. The two of you can communicate with very few words, because both of you will understand the other's wishes intuitively. You should treat each other tenderly with a lot of consideration; neither one of you has any reason to fear losing anything, and both of you give from your hearts. You can be very happy together, but you should watch out that you keep your feet firmly on the ground.
Bill will use his strength and will power to bring about changes in both of your lives. Maybe with your help he can overcome disappointments which have been bothering him. Your affection and trust will make him become more gentle and that will allow him to experience more joy in life. On the other hand you will get to know your strengths and will realize that you have access to a hidden energy source, you can activate anytime. Both of you will experience that love will conquer every inner crisis and that light only exists because there is darkness.
You will give Bill's drive to experience adventures form which will provide the stable foundation he needs to unfold his ideas. Because your thinking is founded on realism, you will have to make sure that he always stays with the facts and that he puts his ideas into practice in a realistic manner. In this way you will keep your mind healthy and rational counteracting his expansive character. Your relationship is characterised by a basic positive attitude, because you get along well. The mutual respect you have for each other will give your relationship a special flavour.
This aspect will bring a productive exchange between you on an intellectual level. Each of you is open to the other's ideas. Your free thinking character won't leave him unimpressed, and could even inspire him to new ideas. You don't restrict each other, because both of you are capable of thinking for yourselves. Therefore this will enrich both of you and you willingly confront each other. You don't necessarily have to melt into one, since you aren't opposed to keeping your individuality. Probably you have a lot of good ideas together.
This aspect will make things complicated because a lot will depend on how Hilary's relationship to her father has developed in the course of her life. If he determined how her life would be and still tries to be in control of her, it will be very difficult for her to avoid seeing her father in her partner. He may even reflect some of the restrictive elements of her childhood. He is going to have to relax, whereby she should support him. That could be the first step towards more self-confidence and personal integrity. Both of you come to the realization that if you don't put some distance between you and your past, you will only be caging yourselves in. Finding a creative way to transform this situation is Saturn's challenge of this aspect.
Here it will come to a union in which it will be easy for you to avoid restricting your partner emotionally. Even if you should claim ownership of each other, it won't be difficult for you to find an appropriate way to check this tendency. It will be important to Hilary to devote herself to the independent development of her personality, while Bill makes sure the exchange in this relationship is based on equality. He will hardly be interested in oppressing her and ending up with a woman at his side who follows him unconditionally.
You will give Hilary's drive to experience adventures form, which will provide the stable foundation she needs to unfold her ideas. Because your thinking is founded on realism, you will have to make sure that she always stays with the facts and that she puts her ideas into practice in a realistic manner. In this way you will keep your mind healthy and rational which will counteract her expansive character. Your relationship is characterised by a basic positive attitude, because you get along well. The mutual respect you have for each other will give your relationship a special flavour.
You can be a great help to Bill when he is trying to put his life on the right path. Instead of trying to convince him of your own attitude, you will respect and complement each other. You appreciate his unique and imaginative nature, especially when you start to take everything too serious. He will be like a refreshing breeze, who will relieve tension and bring about change. He will feel secure enough to rely on you and knows how important it is to stick together even when differences of opinion crop up. You will help him to see that life sometimes brings unpleasant obligations with it, which have to be fulfilled. Both of you may have problems with this.
Together you will have an unbelievable amount of energy you shouldn't waste. If you both make sure to be careful and not overdo it you could be very successful. You can live out your passions in bed. Maybe you can get your partner out of her shell and help her to recognize her strength and courage. She can help you to work through your disappointments which will make you very happy. Your relationship will be temperamental, still you should try not to overstep certain boundaries.
Bill's Pluto in Conjunction with Hilary's Pluto
Pluto moves very slowly when it is being observed from the Earth, so this is a generation aspect, which will occur in a lot of partnership horoscopes these days. You both watched the same developments in society and probably have at least some of the same needs. It will be necessary to consult the other aspects in order to make concrete statements about this relationship.